2. Spice it up Once initial contact has been made, spice it up a bit with some variety. Move from short, soft kisses into longer, deeper ones, then back again… and don’t use your tongue any more than she does. Change the angle by moving your head to the other side, and alternate between sucking on her lower and upper lip. Be sure to stop to breathe after every few kisses. These little moves will let her know that you know exactly what you’re doing. 1. Explore her body When you’re ready to really turn up the heat, kiss her on her neck and move your lips slowly up to her earlobes and give a light nibble. Don’t be surprised when she starts breathing heavily. WOW. I’m quite impressed that there is so much detail. I guess men need that much detail?!